4:59am
I am completely and utterly exhausted.
I haven’t been sleeping much for the past 2 weeks now and its really starting to take its toll on me.
My eyes are so heavy and ready to close but I can’t seem to find the stop button on my thoughts so I can actually fall asleep.
So I sit here. Mindlessly watch Criminal Minds. Try meditation videos from YouTube. Count sheep. Everything I can possibly think to do and yet…here I sit. Exhausted and unable to sleep.
The panic attacks are starting to flare up again. Each one seems to be longer than the last; they are probably about the same length though. After I’ve pulled myself out of them these past few times I can’t help but think how much help a dog would provide me.
I met a service dog in training at work today and had a pretty long talk with the trainer. Coincidentally the dog was being trained for her client with a severe panic disorder and major depressive disorder. My symptoms are not nearly as severe as these two disorders but we talked about how the dog is trained to alert to panic attacks and use a technique called ‘deep pressure therapy’ to help ground the owner during/after an attack.
I know everyone has different experiences when it comes to panic attacks/anxiety.
Anxiety for me isn’t rocking back and forth or being noticeably distressed. It’s a sudden increase in heart rate. My chest feels like it’s going to explode. Breathing becomes a thought instead of an automatic action. Thankfully I am usually at home when I get them, but not always. At work I have to go to the bathroom, gently pat some cold water on my face, and try grounding myself in the moment. At home, however, it’s harder to do that.
I am alone a lot more than I used to be. With the hours that dad works, and you being gone, it’s pretty quiet at home. So when I have these panic attacks at home, I tend to just disassociate myself from everything. It sounds crazy but the feeling is almost like an out of body experience. Like I am watching myself go through this and walk myself through getting out of that moment.
I also feel like having a dog around would reduce the anxiety in general and maybe even make me feel genuinely happy for the first time in what seems like forever.
This is all just rambling though. AJ gave the official no to me having an animal here. I started doing research today about obtaining an actual service dog instead of just an emotional support dog. The only problem is the expenses required to send a dog through specific training. The closest school to me is still 4 hours away and is over $8,000 for the cheapest option which wouldn’t include travel expenses or anything else. I would be willing to do the owner trained service dog but the problem with that is he wouldn’t be certified yet so technically I wouldn’t have somewhere to live with him while training.
I don’t know. As stated before, this is just rambling. It probably won’t happen. Why should he care how miserable I am, right?
After all, the best cure is to just “get over it”….